I read with interest and found that many Singaporeans put it too many hours at work. After that, they are too tired and have no time to date or find someone to go dating with. The workplace does not help either, where bossess expect employees to clock many face hours including OT on weekdays and weekends. This no brainer leads to lower marriages, to lower birth rates and obviously a shrinking Singaporean population where foreigners need to be called in to boost up the birth rates. Unfortunately, the foreigners are also very practical and knowing Singapore is the most expensive place to live in does not heed the advice thrown at them.
Actually, it boils down to your own choice, do you want money to spend on yourself only or would you risk sacrificing work performance to look for your soul mate? If I were you, I definitely choose the latter as I have now and enjoy the company of my own family.
To your dating and marriage success
Raymond
Tuesday, March 29, 2016
Wednesday, March 16, 2016
Guys, great stats to boost your dating confidence
Hi guys,
I came across this stats from Yahoo "For every 1000 women in Singapore, there are only 965 men". What does that mean? Your chance of landing a date is much greater or your chance of a SG girl liking you is much higher. Your odds compared to guys in mainland China are better, since there are more China men compared to women. The stats maybe great, you still need to put in effort to woo the girl of your dream and get youeself educated about the dating "game".
To your dating success.
I came across this stats from Yahoo "For every 1000 women in Singapore, there are only 965 men". What does that mean? Your chance of landing a date is much greater or your chance of a SG girl liking you is much higher. Your odds compared to guys in mainland China are better, since there are more China men compared to women. The stats maybe great, you still need to put in effort to woo the girl of your dream and get youeself educated about the dating "game".
To your dating success.
Sunday, October 25, 2015
Would you date a woman smarter than you?
As the title goes, will you be brave enough to date a woman more intelligent than you?
Most man interviewed said that they would, however when it came to the real thing, men gave them a miss.
In Singapore, this is going to be the case where more women attains higher educational qualification and climb the corporate ladder higher. Women are starting to head multi-national corporations, leaving their male counterparts behind.
What do you think are the pro and cons of dating a woman smarter than you and are you ready for this eventual change? Share with us by leaving your comments after this post.
To you dating success
Most man interviewed said that they would, however when it came to the real thing, men gave them a miss.
In Singapore, this is going to be the case where more women attains higher educational qualification and climb the corporate ladder higher. Women are starting to head multi-national corporations, leaving their male counterparts behind.
What do you think are the pro and cons of dating a woman smarter than you and are you ready for this eventual change? Share with us by leaving your comments after this post.
To you dating success
Tuesday, June 4, 2013
Chinese model and actress praises Singaporean men
Hi folks,
You need not blink your eye to look at the title again.
Yes, a refreshing experience to note that Singaporean men are still highly sought after by women.
It is a consolation that women from neighbouring countries still fancy our local guys.
See what model Gan Lulu, of Beijing China, she has to say here: http://sg.entertainment.yahoo.com/news/model-gan-lulu-praises-singaporean-men-064000523.html
I have seldom seen a Singaporean girl praise a Singaporean guy these days. All I hear are complaints and why Caucasian men are better.
There are areas which you have to know to impress Singaporean girls. It is not rocket science and these can be mastered.
To your dating success
Raymond
http://express-learner.com/home
You need not blink your eye to look at the title again.
Yes, a refreshing experience to note that Singaporean men are still highly sought after by women.
It is a consolation that women from neighbouring countries still fancy our local guys.
See what model Gan Lulu, of Beijing China, she has to say here: http://sg.entertainment.yahoo.com/news/model-gan-lulu-praises-singaporean-men-064000523.html
I have seldom seen a Singaporean girl praise a Singaporean guy these days. All I hear are complaints and why Caucasian men are better.
There are areas which you have to know to impress Singaporean girls. It is not rocket science and these can be mastered.
To your dating success
Raymond
http://express-learner.com/home
Thursday, May 9, 2013
Local men marrying foreign brides really on the rise?
Hi folks,
Glad to be back posting again on this interesting topic of dating and marriage in Singapore.
Recently, I went to the polyclinic to get a referral letter for ezyma, due to sensitive skin. Its nothing serious though. As usual, there are many people waiting to see the doctors.
The process went well and I got some prescription. Whilst waiting for my prescription, I stood at the back since there were no seats. I noticed something worth discussing.
Couple #1 - Wife was carrying their baby, spoke Chinese and I recognise the accent was from Mainland China. Husband is a local Singaporean Chinese.
Couple #2 - Wife was seated with their child who was sitting in a pram, when she spoke to her friend, it sounded like Vietnamese. Husband is a local Singaporean Chinese.
What is common here?
It is evident that more local Singaporean men are marrying foreign brides from our neighbouring countries.
As Singaporean women becomes more highly educated, and focus on career early on, it will be more difficult to date and subsequently marry them. Worst of all, they have a bad impression for local men. Why the change in attitude?
I faced the same issues years ago and how did I make a break-through with them? There are certain solutions you must take to succeed.
If you are facing these same difficulties, share with us in this blog or send a private email. We can help you.
To your dating success
Raymond
http://express-learner.com/home
Glad to be back posting again on this interesting topic of dating and marriage in Singapore.
Recently, I went to the polyclinic to get a referral letter for ezyma, due to sensitive skin. Its nothing serious though. As usual, there are many people waiting to see the doctors.
The process went well and I got some prescription. Whilst waiting for my prescription, I stood at the back since there were no seats. I noticed something worth discussing.
Couple #1 - Wife was carrying their baby, spoke Chinese and I recognise the accent was from Mainland China. Husband is a local Singaporean Chinese.
Couple #2 - Wife was seated with their child who was sitting in a pram, when she spoke to her friend, it sounded like Vietnamese. Husband is a local Singaporean Chinese.
What is common here?
It is evident that more local Singaporean men are marrying foreign brides from our neighbouring countries.
As Singaporean women becomes more highly educated, and focus on career early on, it will be more difficult to date and subsequently marry them. Worst of all, they have a bad impression for local men. Why the change in attitude?
I faced the same issues years ago and how did I make a break-through with them? There are certain solutions you must take to succeed.
If you are facing these same difficulties, share with us in this blog or send a private email. We can help you.
To your dating success
Raymond
http://express-learner.com/home
Saturday, October 13, 2012
Marriage stats you must know!
Hi everyone,
Two weeks ago, I came across my local newspapers called the "Sunday Times", an article called "More mixed unions and remarriages". In it spells out the current trend of marriages.
If you are a Singaporean guy looking to marry a Singaporean Chinese girl who is younger than you, it is going to be tough luck and the odds are stacked against you.
Fret not, I have come up with two guide books "Nail Your First Date" and "Nail Your First Relationship" so that you can gain knowledge and use them to your advantage to beat the odds. Check them out now.
Two weeks ago, I came across my local newspapers called the "Sunday Times", an article called "More mixed unions and remarriages". In it spells out the current trend of marriages.
- More Singaporean men are marrying foreign Asian women.
- More Chinese local women are marrying Caucasian men.
- More local older women are marrying local younger men.
If you are a Singaporean guy looking to marry a Singaporean Chinese girl who is younger than you, it is going to be tough luck and the odds are stacked against you.
Fret not, I have come up with two guide books "Nail Your First Date" and "Nail Your First Relationship" so that you can gain knowledge and use them to your advantage to beat the odds. Check them out now.
Friday, July 20, 2012
Singaporean girls makes the first move on guys?
Hi,
I came across this interesting Yahoo! article that Singaporean girls are more daring today and not afraid to make the first move towards guys. Yahoo! interviwed a few girls in tertiary institutions stated that with gender equality, they are willing to take a chance in revealing how they feel for the guy they are interested in, as life is short. They need not wait such a long time for the guy to make up his mind to ask her out. While other girls are alittle more careful by giving signs to the guy to make the first move in dating them. This is a good chance for passive and shy guys who are afraid of rejections to be approached by girls who are interested in them and won't be left out in the dating scene.
You can read the full article here
For more of your dating need, please visit my website
To your success
Raymond
I came across this interesting Yahoo! article that Singaporean girls are more daring today and not afraid to make the first move towards guys. Yahoo! interviwed a few girls in tertiary institutions stated that with gender equality, they are willing to take a chance in revealing how they feel for the guy they are interested in, as life is short. They need not wait such a long time for the guy to make up his mind to ask her out. While other girls are alittle more careful by giving signs to the guy to make the first move in dating them. This is a good chance for passive and shy guys who are afraid of rejections to be approached by girls who are interested in them and won't be left out in the dating scene.
You can read the full article here
For more of your dating need, please visit my website
To your success
Raymond
Saturday, June 16, 2012
How to get a first date with the girl you have your eyes on?
Hi everyone,
In my first book "Nail Your First Date", I talked about what you must do on a first date to impress her so that you can get more dates with her when you subsequently ask her. Before you get to go on a first date, what must you do? I am going to share with you some ideas.
Idea1: You must ask the girl.
Many guys find this hard as they are shy and afraid to make the first move. While others are afraid of rejection. Girls will never ask you out, even if they do, you will think negatively of them. You need to pluck up the courage to ask the right girl you want to date.
Idea2: You must first be her friend.
No girl will go out with you if she does not already know you. It will be easier if you have already known her and she is familiar with you. When you ask, she does not take it that you are dating her and will treat it as a casual outing.
Idea3: Ask her at the right time
Usually guys get rejected when they ask at the wrong time and they don't realize it. Ask her when she is in a good mood and when she is not preoccupied.
The three points may sound easy and common sense, how many guys actually pay attention to it? I have my fair share of failures when I ignored the above points.
For more solutions to you dating needs, you can visit my website. Sign up for our free newsletter on how you can use Speed Dating to land a first date.
To you dating success.
Raymond
In my first book "Nail Your First Date", I talked about what you must do on a first date to impress her so that you can get more dates with her when you subsequently ask her. Before you get to go on a first date, what must you do? I am going to share with you some ideas.
Idea1: You must ask the girl.
Many guys find this hard as they are shy and afraid to make the first move. While others are afraid of rejection. Girls will never ask you out, even if they do, you will think negatively of them. You need to pluck up the courage to ask the right girl you want to date.
Idea2: You must first be her friend.
No girl will go out with you if she does not already know you. It will be easier if you have already known her and she is familiar with you. When you ask, she does not take it that you are dating her and will treat it as a casual outing.
Idea3: Ask her at the right time
Usually guys get rejected when they ask at the wrong time and they don't realize it. Ask her when she is in a good mood and when she is not preoccupied.
The three points may sound easy and common sense, how many guys actually pay attention to it? I have my fair share of failures when I ignored the above points.
For more solutions to you dating needs, you can visit my website. Sign up for our free newsletter on how you can use Speed Dating to land a first date.
To you dating success.
Raymond
Saturday, September 3, 2011
How to go steady with the girl you are currently dating
Hi everybody,
This time, I am going to reveal to you the top three tell tale signs that the girl you are dating is interested in you and is ready to say yes to you if you ask her to be your girlfriend.
1) She likes and respect you for who you are.
2) She always include you in her decision maing
3) She enjoys your company and feels safe with you
Obviously you need more signs before you can be certain. For more of these signs, you can check them out here.
To your dating success!
This time, I am going to reveal to you the top three tell tale signs that the girl you are dating is interested in you and is ready to say yes to you if you ask her to be your girlfriend.
1) She likes and respect you for who you are.
2) She always include you in her decision maing
3) She enjoys your company and feels safe with you
Obviously you need more signs before you can be certain. For more of these signs, you can check them out here.
To your dating success!
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
First Date must do list
Hi
Have you thought of what you need to do to get the most out of your first date with a Singaporean girl? Stay tune as I give you 3 effective strategies to perfect your first date.
1) Be punctual - Singaporeans are basically impatient due to fast pace of life. If you are going to be late for your first date speaks negatively of your behaviour and attitude. She will not accept a second invitation from you.
2) Plan your first date - You must know what to do, where to go, when to go, how to dress
3) Go to safe places - To gain her trust you need to be safe, bring her to places where there are many people.
As you can see, this is only the tip of the iceberg. There are more things you must do inorder to have a great first date and proceed on to more dates. For more of these, you can check them out here.
Have you thought of what you need to do to get the most out of your first date with a Singaporean girl? Stay tune as I give you 3 effective strategies to perfect your first date.
1) Be punctual - Singaporeans are basically impatient due to fast pace of life. If you are going to be late for your first date speaks negatively of your behaviour and attitude. She will not accept a second invitation from you.
2) Plan your first date - You must know what to do, where to go, when to go, how to dress
3) Go to safe places - To gain her trust you need to be safe, bring her to places where there are many people.
As you can see, this is only the tip of the iceberg. There are more things you must do inorder to have a great first date and proceed on to more dates. For more of these, you can check them out here.
Sunday, July 25, 2010
"Nail Your First Relationship"
Hi everyone,
Our book "Nail Your First Relationship" will be officially launched on 1st Aug 2010. To get a copy, please proceed to http://www.express-learner.com/products.
To your dating success
Raymond
Our book "Nail Your First Relationship" will be officially launched on 1st Aug 2010. To get a copy, please proceed to http://www.express-learner.com/products.
To your dating success
Raymond
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