Saturday, June 16, 2012

How to get a first date with the girl you have your eyes on?

Hi everyone,

In my first book "Nail Your First Date", I talked about what you must do on a first date to impress her so that you can get more dates with her when you subsequently ask her. Before you get to go on a first date, what must you do? I am going to share with you some ideas.

Idea1: You must ask the girl.
Many guys find this hard as they are shy and afraid to make the first move. While others are afraid of rejection. Girls will never ask you out, even if they do, you will think negatively of them. You need to pluck up the courage to ask the right girl you want to date.

Idea2: You must first be her friend.
No girl will go out with you if she does not already know you. It will be easier if you have already known her and she is familiar with you. When you ask, she does not take it that you are dating her and will treat it as a casual outing.

Idea3:  Ask her at the right time
Usually guys get rejected when they ask at the wrong time and they don't realize it. Ask her when she is in a good mood and when she is not preoccupied.
 
The three points may sound easy and common sense, how many guys actually pay attention to it? I have my fair share of failures when I ignored the above points.
 
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To you dating success.
Raymond